FOILED AGAIN

Sadly, the perv will do anything to not be found out what kind of a perverse individual he really is.  I should have known.  


So the saga of Jacob goes on.  Jacob is now twenty years of age.  An emancipated adult for sure.  On that premise, and because he is now living in the very same city I am living in and attending MU, I wrote him an email to him tell him how very sorry I was I wasn't able to help either he or his Mom (my daughter) out of their awful situation.   

The email was filled with love (and a pic of him when he was a baby) and expressed the desire to talk with him - if he wanted to call me.  Point is, I left it totally up to him.  

Next thing I know, I get a certified letter from an attorney in Charleston, telling me to "cease and desist" otherwise they will file charges of stalking against me.  

Really?  LOL  I have been aware that Jacob was in school here (in fact I own properties near the school) since March or April of this year.  Not one time did I ever set foot on campus or have the urge to go find him in person, and I never will. In fact, in the email, I explained the only reason I was writing so much is in case he decided not to call me. I'm glad I did now.  I wanted him to know how much I still love him (and his Mom).  Guess it is against the law now to do that, to express one's love and care?

Now his grandfather (he still hates me because I divorced him and this is his lifelong revenge, taking my grandson away from me) and/or perhaps his dad had the lawyer send the letter (his dad now lives in NS, supposedly for work, but I have to wonder if it is because he had to go North, across the border, because he is running from the law?  Not sure.  Don't really care.  Only thing I know is God has a special place in Hell for people who molest children! 

Anyway, supposedly Jacob was upset to learn  that he had a maternal grandmother? The point being, I'm not really sure it is Jacob who initiated the letter from the lawyer. They could have done it without Jacob's knowledge, behind his back, and Jacob wouldn't be any the wiser.  I say that because the lawyer who said she represented him is a long-time family friend of his step-grandmother's.   Hmmm.  You think there could have been some collusion there???  

The only good thing that has come out of it is that I know for sure Jacob did get the letter!  He now knows his maternal grandmother's name, address, and phone number.  He has a way to contact me if he wants. One can only hope he will contact me sometime in the near future.  Time flies by so fast and I am no spring chicken.  

I know if it were me, I would be more than curious about someone I was blood related to (if nothing else for DNA and medical history) but yet wasn't permitted to see for seventeen years and the real reason why.  Wild horses couldn't keep me away from meeting a grandparent whose very same blood runs in MY veins. Who perhaps I look like?  To find out who he inherited his Irish green eyes and reddish brown hair from?  (Me, lol)  Or perhaps talks similar to or has mannerism that greatly resemble that person.  No, NOTHING could keep me from knowing my maternal grandmother.  

After all there are so many things to share...a living great grandfather (now 93), an aunt, great-aunts, first cousins, second and even third cousins!  I have baby pictures of him that I am sure he has never seen as I was the one who took them.  Yes, I would be very curious if I were him.   

Perhaps, they told him I was dead and this is a shock to him?  Anyway, the good news is I am not dead, I am here waiting for him (or his mom) to contact me.  Both would be welcomed with open arms. 

That day WILL come, of that I am certain. But, now it is up to him.

Love,

Nana