Much Love to my Dad

If he lives through this, he will turn 91 on June 5th.

Dumb nursing home hadn't been giving him his diabetes medicine since last November.  I mean he went in a diabetic, what made them think he had gotten "over it?"

WE finally realized it only after he had been admitted to the hospital.  Apparently, when he was sitting in the dining room waiting for his lunch, he had a seizure at the table, fell forward hitting his face (his glasses ground into his face) and fell onto the floor breaking a bone in his upper shoulder. I was told by the nurse they were really frightened.  Well, they should have been frightened because his sugar so so out of whack, he seized!

Unfortunately, my oldest sister has MPA.  She makes all the decisions and placed both my Mom and Dad in the same lousy nursing home! After I did  a little investigating, I find it is ranked the WORST nursing home in the State of WV.  (Sadly, someone obviously didn't do their homework before placing them.)

Most evenings you can't even go in there the smell (of dirty diapers) is so very bad, you have to hold your nose.  One patient goes so far as to smear Vick's Vapo Rub under her nose and on the door frame of her room in order to be able to tolerate the smell.  Seriously!

It just  breaks my heart for my parents, two of the most hard-working people ever, to be subjected to this type of neglect in their advanced ages.

I can't even bring him (or her) home with me not only because I am barely able to take care of myself with all the illnesses and conditions they tell me I have, but because my sister wouldn't allow it.  Makes me so sad.

But, those emotions have turned to pure anger! I can tell you I am totally frustrated with the nursing home. You think your loved one is safer there than home alone.  Ha!  At least when they were at home, they were able to take care of their diabetes and high blood pressure themselves.  However, once you enter a nursing home, you are totally at the mercy of the NH administrator and the Federal government.  Did you know that?

Seriously, before they will pay a dime, you have to sign the person over to them, giving them guardianship. Which means, they can't have a vitamin pill, or even an aspirin (Tylenol) for a headache without first having the staff doctor order  it, and he doesn't even come into the place except every two weeks.  Seriously???

 I mean most of our animals are treated better than that.

Oh, yeah and Dad also has a fractured pelvis.  How did that happen???  He looked like he had been beaten up. Like I said, I can only hope and pray he makes it through to his next birthday.

Prayers for my Dad.   Love him.